hmmm.... really truee....

Hiee...
I has been a pretty long time tat i have not posted anything... Today wanna share something said by one of my dearest friend which i find realllyyy true...I keep reading it most of the times when i feel sick of this world ...and it has helped me a lot in changing my perspective....
Here it goes like this...........

"Sometimes in life, things happen to you or around you that you cannot explain, may they be good or bad, the worst things may happen to the best of ppl, ppl who dnt deserve it, and really good things may befall ppl who are not deserving, according to all of us, we like to think we know, we want what we deserve, but that's not true.... Whatever happens to us in this life, has been written by the same hands that controls, that has created everything else, the proof is everywhere, its just that our limited wisdom does not compare to the lord's infinite wisdom, and in his infinite wisdon he knows best... There is always a much brighter side to anything mis-fortune, no matter how dire it may be, that happens to us. We all should fear God and no one else.......!!"

Everything happens for a reason....

I believe that everyting happens for a reason.. People change so that you can learn to let go.. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they are right, you believe less so you eventually learn to trust no one but youself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together...

SOMEDAY everything WILL MAKE PERFECT SENSE.. SO FOR NOW, Laugh ALL THE CONFUSION.. Smile THROUGH THE TEARS.. && KEEP REMINDING YOURSELF.. "Everything HAPPENS FOR A Reason"...

Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past ~Stop planning the future ~Stop trying to figure out precisely how we feel ~Stop deciding with out mind what we want our heart to feel ~Sometimes we just have to go wit......."Whatever happens - happens"

"God's delays are not God's denials"

Most people fail at whatever they attempt because of an undecided heart. Should I? Should I not? Go forward? Go back? Success requires the emotional balance of a committed heart. When confronted with a challenge, the committed heart will search for a solution, the undecided heart searches for an escape. A committed heart does not wait for conditions to be exactly right. Why?? Because conditions are never exactly right. Indecision limits the Almighty and his ability to perform miracles in your life. He has put the vision in you --- PROCEED. To wait, to wonder, to doubt, to be indecisive is to disobey God. So, like the saying goes "You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you that you can't do it. You want something? Go get it. Period."And yeah..always remember that "God's delays are not God's denials."

LOVE ????

Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong.....it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there...
you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things....coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you."
You can never be perfect...the person you love can never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without God.....that's why we have marriage it's a bond not only between you and your loved one....but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person....it's because we expected too much and we decided on our own....let God do the work...you may call it waiting time....but while you are waiting...pray.
Let God guide you always...He knows better. No, He knows best.

Love is not what you think it is....Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of truelove. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined. When we think we're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received..." And after a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest mistake i've ever made for my entire life...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, till Death do us apart, etc." would end up "Never" and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!".
Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "She/He ain't the right one."
But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship.
You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.

jus wishing u love........

Goodbye, no use leading with our chins
This is where our story ends
Never lovers ever friends..

Goodbye let our hearts call it a day
But before you walk away
I sincerely want to say....

I wish you blue birds in the spring
To give your heart a song to sing
And then a kiss, and more than this
I wish you love.

And in July a lemonade
To cool you in some leafy glade
I wish you health and more than wealth
I wish you love.

My breaking heart and I agree
That you and I could never be
So with all my best, my very best, I set you free.

I wish you shelter from the storm
A cozy fire to keep you warm
And most of all when snowflakes fall
I wish you love....

Memories Play a Confusing Role......

You left me not too long ago
and yet it seems like forever.
I reminisce the day you left all this time
because I was right there beside you

I can't seem to get over the feelings I had,
at that very moment I felt so alone.
It grew cold in the room
that I lost all feelings and sense

All I had was pure silence and disbelief,
I saw people moving towards you all around me
and yet I couldn't move a step towards you.
I couldn't distinguish my emotions
because I wasn't sure of them

I felt soo much anger and sadness, but I couldn't cry.
At that moment I wasn't sure what was wrong.
And now it all comes back to me
Every tear I held in falls, and now I can't seem to stop

I've realized how much I missed you
and how much I've needed you here
but there is no way for me to reach out for your touch.
I feel so alone right now,
that I just wish you could take me with you..

Finally i joined.....!! :)

Feels gud to b here.. heard a lot abt blogging frm my so called cutie frend who was buggin me to create an account here...;) so thought y not try n explore this new world.. lookin forward fr a great experience...